Ladies Look

This one is for you. So flat out I'm tired of seeing my female friends with tears & broken hearts so this right here is to help you prevent any further relationship errors/abuse. Because straight up enough is enough, & I'm sure it doesn't just take a Keisha Cole or Beyonce song to help you out in a relationship. This blog focuses on 3 major miscues, malfunctions or mistakes when it comes to relationship issues. Hear me out:

So 1st common mistake I want to address is the friends with benefits subject. Now the most important thing you should take from this (or any other post) is to WEAR PROTECTION 110% OF THE TIME!!! I cannot stress this enough. A friend with benefits is a person who is still single however they share their body exclusively or UN exclusively with you or any number of people. NEVER raw dog it when it comes to a friend with benefits!! This is a cardinal sin & should be treated as such. Not only are you gambling with your health/life & others you also risk bringing another life into this world, & cutty buddies will not thrive as successful parents. Please heed my warning, & understand that at the end of the day its simply sex. Now Back to this cutty buddy situation, even if u are practising safe sex you are still gambling emotionally. Ladies you are creatures who love with your mind body & soul, & us men can sometimes only love with our dicks. Sorry fellas but I gotta keep it G. Most friends with benefits have rules & those conflict with the status of the person who again is single. A single person has no rules & acts off impulse, so ladies if you are in a situation like this proceed with caution. You are setting yourself up for disaster, especially if your not working toward a serious committed relationship. Either end it or play the game like your playing Russian roulette with your heart.

2nd Common error is the "Priority Factor". Women due yourselves a favor & know when & when not to be in the field of dating. A lot of relationships will not work because you cannot allow YOURself to work properly, meaning you have personal issues you need to address just as we all do. So don't put yourself in a position where you have to struggle with a job, school, child, family, religious, personal & social life. A dude is not worth the trouble of getting in the way of any of them. A lot of women spend valuable time of their youth while wasting it on a man who isn't of quality. Remember as a person we want to progress not regress so focus on getting your ducks in line before you add the drama of a relationship & believe me all relationships have some sort of drama in someway. So never put so much sacrifice in a guy who isn't important enough to become your husband. Believe me most of us dudes aren't shit anyway.

So the 3rd & final issue which is also the most important is this. LOVE YOURSELF MORE THAN ANY OTHER PERSON!! I mean seriously women listen when I say that you as a woman, are thee best creation on this earth and you all should act accordingly. A lot of times us men won't see your worth until something dramatic happens & 9 times out of 10 that's when its too late. When you love yourself more than any other guy then you set the bar, on how to be treated & how one will treat you. You set the bar & men will either be up to the challenge or they will be intimidated by it. So what if they are scared, you are a strong woman so don't sacrifice you being lonely in exchange for a man mistreating you or breaking your heart. ITS NOT WORTH IT

Hope this helps & again I'm only being brutally honest.

-Darrin Elliot